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The Sunday Summary: Digital planners, legal spam, and fewer goals

Fewer goals in 2024

A minute on the internet in 2023

Legality is not morality

A Nimble contact list

A paper planner on a digital notepad

Merry Christmas

The Sunday Summary: Search rankings, being fully prepared, and never letting things “go without saying”

It never goes without saying

Being fully prepared

Some businesses just don’t have the value

What does your business do without?

Why should your website rank higher than theirs?

Process drives outcomes

The Sunday Summary: QR code scams, magic emails, and taking suggestions from others

You can’t do it, or you’re still learning?

We suggest this one

The downside of the “magic email”

You can’t just download information into your brain

The QR code scams

10x vs 1/10th

The Sunday Summary: Frequency illusion, sharing notes, and the value of character

Early weaknesses lead to great trust

Character is worth more every day

Your notes are not my notes

9/11 caused 1,600 automobile fatalities

Intentional frequency illusion

How can I pay for that?

The Sunday Summary: The gaps, networks, scripts, and adversarial interoperability

Adversarial Interoperability

Sticking to the script

Know enough to find the gaps

Network is a noun

Writing exposes your gaps

Google Tasks is finally decent

The Sunday Summary: Magical marketing, ruinous empathy, and gaps in our knowledge

I don’t know what I’m wrong about

Our customers don’t need more content

Scale the unscalable

Values without expression are dead

Ruinous Empathy

Marketing isn’t magic

The Sunday Summary: Meaningless mutual friends, really old computers, and a longer attention span than a goldfish

The week of unfollowing

The key is not the will to win

The attention span of a goldfish

Can your notes be read on a 60-year-old computer?

It’s very doable to be the most knowledgeable

Having mutual friends doesn’t justify a connection

The Sunday Summary: Impossible tests, no more goal setting, and finding new problems to solve

Arriving early shows respect

Problems need to be discovered

Reaching a goal is the penalty you receive for setting one

Do your own research?

The State of Louisiana Literacy Test

You need to envy the entire life

The Sunday Summary: Good design, lack of nuance, and balance that isn’t 50/50

Warmth and Competence

Balance doesn’t mean 50/50

When creativity helps the most

Knowledge can be power

Nuance doesn’t lead to attention

Design is how it works

The Sunday Summary: Better schools, removing features, and Threads starting to pick up steam

Three years of daily blogging

Promote what you love, or bash what you hate?

Threads is starting to replace X/Twitter

No one will be there to explain it to the customer

Remove something else

Wanting to attend a better school is almost as good as getting into one

The Sunday Summary: Telling your story, the future of VR, and failing to bother to care

Sin is the failure to bother to care

First Encounters is Wii Sports

From Google Podcasts to Snipd

Information asymmetry no longer exists

The next round of VR will be the one to watch

Tell your story yourself

The Sunday Summary: Branded searches, veneer, and saving 50 steps a day

Save 50 steps a day

The incredible value in some services

Know the other side better than them

Design isn’t veneer

Branded searches matter too

The customer isn’t always the user

The Sunday Summary: Historical leverage, disloyal loyalty cards, and the amazing world around us

Understanding those that confound us

Your inbox is other people’s agenda

Marketing is not interrupting people

Do you think the world is good?

Loyalty cards don’t lead to loyalty

Learning from history is a form of leverage

The Sunday Summary: Doing intentionally unscalable things, creating knowledge, and picking up trash

The Muse sees the butt in the chair

Advice is often an average that hides the distribution

USB-C is finally everywhere

Just pick up the trash

Access to knowledge is good, but creating it is better

It intentionally doesn’t scale

The Sunday Summary: Digital prep, brain changes, more Readwise, and more AI

Yes, AI will take some jobs

Readwise at the end

Technology changes the focus of our brain

The signal and the message

Let’s do this again next week

Digitally prepping for a trip

The Sunday Summary: Working on paper, quitting, and being clever

Is it clever or self-indulgent?

Never quit?

Intentional imbalance

Visceral responses matter

Does it work on paper?

There is no average person

The Sunday Summary: Norman Doors, good design, and too much feedback

Obsidian “properties” to help sort your stuff

Too much feedback is a problem

Strive for it anyhow

Good design is hard to notice

Decentralized Command

Norman Doors are everywhere

The Sunday Summary: The internet, the mundane, and the degree of difficulty

Clear ownership in disagreements with your partner

Urgency is the opposite of hurrying

Degree of difficulty doesn’t count

You never have all of the facts

The magic is in the mundane

A good mental model of the internet is essential

The Sunday Summary: Processes, titles, taxes and stacking knowledge

The internet was better when people weren’t afraid to link out

Title it from their perspective

Kicking off “Stacking Knowledge” with “Think Again”

Tax the things you want to see less of

Your call is monitored

Emphasize the process over the results

The Sunday Summary: Context is key, no one is an expert, and schlep blindness should be avoided

There’s no such thing as like-minded

No one considers themselves an expert if they really know their job

The world at 10 is perfect

Avoiding schlep blindness

Answers come from understanding, not knowledge

Share with context

The Sunday Summary: Tennis balls, fresh eyes, and making the most of every book I read

The times we fight with ourselves

One more set of fresh eyes

When is it for you, and when is it for someone else?

Find more problems

Getting more out of the books I read

People aren’t tennis balls

The Sunday Summary: Mindlessness, foundations, reports and immaterial things

Retargeting and Remarketing aren’t quite the same

What matters is doing the right thing

Always build the foundation first

Writing the report is the important part

The ownership of immaterial things

Mindlessness for deep thought

The Sunday Summary: Spam, boundaries, and why free is way better than cheap

It’s the best for YOU

Simple solutions to weird problems

Social norms versus market norms

Which one do you like?

Boundaries can create freedom

Yes, that’s spam

The Sunday Summary: Thought leaders, curiosity, confidence, and respect

Respect includes clear criticism

Confident answers can be problematic

The maddening ambiguity of upstream efforts

Curiosity is empathy

Thought leaders are everywhere

Multitasking makes learning difficult

The Sunday Summary: Cheap lights, worthless empathy, and wasted marketing

Obsess about your competitors, or obsess about your customers?

Your real customers are a level or two deeper

Wasting your efforts on marketing

SEO hasn’t ever really changed

Empathy without action is worthless

A lot of work for a little light

The Sunday Summary: Tiny sales, slow speed, and bad feedback

Learning from the news

“Make it darker” is not an acceptable form of feedback

Creativity comes from connected thoughts

Can you speed it up?

Sell the customer as little as possible

Your oncologist doesn’t need to be a cancer survivor

The Sunday Summary: Removing gates, avoiding AI, building trust, and folding phones

Unfold It

Standards over obedience

A solid business is built on trust

AI won’t take over this blog

Higher standards can make things look worse

It’s about time to remove the gates

The Sunday Summary: Parades, amazing tools, lazy leadership, and a bunch of headphones

Headphones for every device

Dumb rules come from lazy leadership

We all have the same tools

You are advertising to a moving parade

Writing a summary is 100x more valuable than reading one

If it costs less, we care less

The Sunday Summary: Long to-do lists, clear speaking, deep notes, and automatic golfing

We tend to trust the skills of automatic people

Visit your notes more often, not less

A little Readwise every day

The clarity of an idea is based on the person receiving it

Do you want to be seen as trustworthy? Be trustworthy.

If you finish your to-do list, that’s problematic

The Sunday Summary: Start now, lots of Anki, lots of content, and there’s no way you can be copied

Awareness of your shortcomings doesn’t excuse them

What service do you offer?

Produce more, because so much of it should be trashed

We are impossible to imitate

Five years of Anki

The right time is right now

The Sunday Summary: Mysteries vs puzzles, outrage, and wonderful tailwinds

Too much thankfulness can backfire

Be thankful for tailwinds

The “truth” about that “great opportunity”

Don’t choose outrage

You could leave life right now

People are mysteries, not puzzles

The Sunday Summary: Scams, parents, your name, and 20 years of WordPress

20 years of WordPress

They probably don’t remember your name

Do you know who my parents are?

Your opinions should not be predictable based on your other opinions

Experience isn’t practice

Yes, it’s a scam

What am I missing?

The Curse of Knowledge

Let people quietly follow you online

Be willing to miss your exit

The truth versus your beliefs

I don’t skip a day (unless I can)

Write notes for future you

If it’s on the slide, it gets written down

Those other people will do lasting harm to our country

AI will lead to more synchronous communication

AI on a blog

Location pages are no longer helpful for SEO

The lock icon in your browser is going away because people don’t understand what it means

Word of mouth dominates marketing

Transparency isn’t the same as honesty

The way it starts isn’t how it finishes, and that’s by design

When you shove away the hostile, you push away the curious

Wanting to remember something doesn’t help

People play differently when they’re keeping score

Honesty can lead to contradictions

The two uses of faces in Anki

When job hunting, communication is key

The first one

The whirlwind is a thief

Misaligned incentives

Empathetic Marketing

Don’t freak out about AI just yet

The successful explosion

Why do they disagree with you?

We all have biases

Using ninety.io with Traction

Homework for life

My 486 wasn’t powerful enough, and neither is AI

Who you know really does matter more than what you know

As automation speeds up, relationships will reign

The people in this room aren’t all the same

First instincts are often wrong

Powerful systems that work come from simple systems that worked

Heavy news readers tend to have more distorted views

Regret has huge benefits

Generative AI is better for input than for output

Sobremesa

The Waters of the United States, and why political leanings might not mean what you think

The bad side of AI

What did you have for breakfast?

It only takes five seconds to clone your voice

It’s obvious to me

They don’t share my values

Negotiate with more questions

Lead with reputation and legacy, not business

The other side really is human

Organize your brain by sharing your thoughts

Everybody has a personal brand

What should confrontation lead to?

Don’t just do something, sit there

Responsiveness can be as important as price

Who should you really serve?

Assigning fault versus solving problems

Thank you for your time

Significant learning comes from being wrong

The future of AI

Bing AI Chat versus Google Bard: A first look

Unfollow me if you disagree

The more you talk, the more you think you learn

According to the state of Florida, you are likely “woke”

You can learn more from people’s questions than their answers

The first bit of AI with my notes

Open sharing helps more in the long run

“I like it.” Thanks, I guess?

The power of inefficiency

Hashtags are just words

Networking versus alliances

Calm can be faster

The Kindle Sidekick

Use fleeting notes to avoid yak shaving

A trusted partner?

Humility can help you seem real

Do you want to garden your notes or not?

Hard to Easy, or Easy to Hard?

Repetition is essential

Your character is how you help people that can’t help you

No organization is perfect

When your filter bubble works too well

Cold outreach is the domain of spammers

Empathy comes from listening

Feedback is a gift

AI is going to kill SEO

A good plumbing decision with a bad outcome

Keyword-rich domain names can cause problems

More content leads to shorter sales cycles

Serve others by taking care of yourself

How much will AI change our world?

That is a tag

You need less data, not more

We all have accessibility needs

Omission is as bad as commission

Do you skip the hard questions?

Choose goals that help you grow along the way

That might be a great sermon idea

Love is greater than hurt feelings

Tracking where I lack insight

Winners quit a lot, so learn to fold faster

Seeking social status gives others power over you

Clarity comes through articulation

Experts lead the process

Talk less like ChatGPT

What am I thinking?

The wonderful pain of being morbidly curious

Learning versus live tweeting

More consumption doesn’t mean you’re better informed

Don’t let your content be vapor

Cause blindness can lead to bad things

Mistakes versus carelessness

It’ll be interesting to see how you guys figure this out

Make the charitable assumption

I find time in the week, not time in the day

The output of courage is curiosity

Don’t forget about the medium ties

Don’t make a bigger mistake

Make the complicated simple

A complaint versus a problem

Excellence doesn’t need to be perfect

Sync vs SaaS

Boast or fact?

Secondary motivation can be powerful

What to read next?

Obsidian wins for now

HBO Max is playing the finite game

Personal note-taking is going to change dramatically

Give or take?

Taming a wild mind

Work on development, not performance

Personas are specific, but not precise

Everything is always working out for me

Google Reader hurt the internet the most

Experts don’t cold call

Set them free to do their thing

Personalization versus personal

Two enormous books

The truth versus paywalls

Strategy or tactic?

A quick look at 2022